May 11th, 2008
If you want to get a lead in the dating game you should need a strategy like all other games! I came across these tips given below in a website:
- Stand in the center of the room. Be the center of attention. But if you’re in a nightclub or bar stay at the corners of the bar. You are more likely to meet more people.
- You should wear pink – peach to make yourselves more approachable. The main reason for that is its very flattering to most skin tones and gives you a healthy glow. If you want to show yourself as a strong woman then go for red, burgundy or plum.
- Use your body language to make yourself approachable. Nod your head or tilt your head to signal that you’re listening to what the other person has to say. Don’t fold arms; don’t chew gums, ice or fingernails.
- You can make yourself approachable and attractive by just a smile.
- Keep in mind that men associate with the scents of cinnamon and vanilla with love.
Good luck with finding your love. Take care see you soon with another article.
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May 4th, 2008
In this online dating era long distance relationships are very common. Even though it is common, couples who are in a long distance relationship do find lots of difficulties in maintaining the relationships. It’s because this kind of relationships require a great deal of understanding and trust. I know all relationships require a great deal of undertanding and trust but i think long distance relationships need a bit more extra care!!! These are some of the suggestions to help you in your long distance relationship.
- Communication channel – Establish a communication channel which is effective and easy for the both of you. Apart from telephone you can use, instant messenger, emails and other new technological communication modes.
- Meeting plans – Plan to meet each other throughout the period of your long distance relationship. The anticipation of seeing each other again will always give you the excitement, hope and as well as eliminating the lonely feeling in your long distance relationship.
- Share a hobby – Share a common hobby so that you will have something to discuss about. Find something online so that it will be convenient for both of you.
- Surprise – Surprise your partner once in awhile with cards, gifts, letter or maybe even a surprise visit [only if it is possible and affordable].
- Share interesting moments – You can capture some interesting moments and exchange them as photos, video clips and audio recording. This will indirectly keep your partner informed on what has happen in your life despite the physical distance.
- One of the hardest parts of a long distance relationship is connecting when one person gets busier than the other. If this happens in a relationship it is important to maintain communication. If you are the busy person, try to warn your partner ahead of time that you will be working many hours and may have limited time. If you are the not-as-busy person, take advantage of the time by picking up a new hobby, getting in shape, reading a new book, etc. Flexibility is very important.
- Do not set unreasonable expectations for your visit. Fantasizing about the visit is fine, but not out loud or by email to your partner. Instead, enjoy the excitement of the surprises to come.
- Long distance relationships can and will test you and your partner; you need to trust him entirely as paranoia can play a major part in the demise of your relationship. Also, these kinds of relationships can bring a lot of disappointment and heartache–depending on the time you spend away from each other it is VERY important that if you want this relationship to work you must make a great effort not to drift apart.
- Long distance relationships are difficult, as you are emotionally attached to a person you cannot touch or comfort (hug, kiss, hold hands), and this can hurt your heart and wreak havoc with your emotions. The only way to make these relationships work is if you and your partner honestly believe you will be able to survive without each other for a considerable amount of time without the need or desire to be with someone else.
We have to be positive minded for our ambitions, aspirations and dreams to be fulfilled. If you both have the will to keep your relationship alive even if you’ll are miles apart then you can find a way to make it work. Always Remember absence makes the heart grow fonder and the distance is only temporary.
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April 23rd, 2008
The dating tips given here may not be the average dating tips. Most of them do not cost a penny. Just try them out for a change…
- Go to a playground – Take along a picnic lunch, baseball, bat, Frisbee or outdoor toys. You could also blow bubbles which will be fun!!! But try to pick a playground that is not in use and play.
- Try and make a dinner together. It will be more memorable.
- Go for a sporting event that both of you’ll like watching or which you haven’t seen live like: a polo match, tennis/ golf tournament, sumo – wrestling, etc.
- Have a round of indoor games for a change. Monopoly, computer games, card games, and end it with a game of twister.
- Go for a simple walk in the outdoors or along the beach. Build a fire and roast and share sticky, gooey, messy barbecue. Lick your fingers or whatever else it takes to get cleaned up.
- Find your local comedy club and laugh yourselves silly.
- Drive to the country, or a park and hunt for a 4 leaf clover.
- Play a little pool and then cuddle up to watch “The color of money”
- Dance all evening and then settle to watch “Save the last dance”
- Look in your local paper… you might find all kinds of festivals from movies to dance to desserts and more. They cost very little, and they are a blast. Walk around, Make jokes, sample everything.
- I’m a big fan of coffee houses. Relatively cheap, plus you can sit and chat on a comfy couch spend time together.
- Live music – There are plenty of gigs.
- Learn a new skill together. Like dance, guitar, even karate.
- Print out a map of the constellations, grab a blanket and snacks and head out for some star gazing.
- Find a park, fly a kite or see who can climb the monkey bars fast and end the date at an ice cream parlor.
- During a lousy weather have a chocolate fondue and snuggle up to watch a movie marathon. Take turns to pick the movie.
The same monotonous dates like going for a movie or restaurant might get a little tiring… and at that moment try something new; Change is good. See you all with another article until that have fun!!!
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April 18th, 2008
All of us are related to someone. This blog is dedicated to those relationships, any kind of relationship. We will also be talking about relationship issues and obstacles we face. How people behave, and understanding what we learn from our experiences with different people will also be discussed. We will try to solve your issues and help you overcome obstacles as well as we can. Take care people and love in order to be loved!!!
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